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Social constructs stem from a collective belief that came to be after a particular group accepted it. By learning what social constructs are and their examples, you might have a grasp on what needs to change.

Certain societies or groups form a uniform mindset on what everyone else must follow according to their standards. Sometimes, they’re not often based on objective realities but more on the idea of being acceptable personally. Social constructs do not hold any meaning.

It is usually up to the people to give context to the rules and systems they’re trying to implement. One of the most concrete examples is how pink pertains to girls, and blue is to boys, which applies to clothing or any other item. This idea shaped society’s perception for a long time until it was unlearned recently. Rather than being a form of truth from an objective standpoint, that belief came from being given meaning within a social context.

Books like “Rediscovering the Wisdom of Human Nature” by Chet Shupe are good references that talk about humanity’s potential to live happily, if not for the ridiculous artificial order imposed by institutions. Chet Shupe wants readers to know that we can still uncover the wisdom that serves as a roadmap to regain our natural sense of purpose; despite how civilization destroys happiness.

Examples of social constructs

Many social constructs were formed and became a norm after a long period of teaching them to succeeding generations. Such standard practices were widely accepted since people of authority deemed them to be. When those concepts were formed, those responsible for the widespread ideals were seen as role models – people with all the right to impose rules and regulations for everyone to follow.

Here are some examples of common social constructs that we are following and living by, subconsciously or not:

Adulthood – the age at which a person is considered an “adult” is subjective and will depend on every individual’s situation. For example, the United States and European Union see that people aged 18 are grown, adults. In other parts of the world, however, adulthood begins at age 16. But don’t mistake it as the legal age for drinking. Certain countries legalize drinking for young people at the age of 21.

Gender norms – there are behaviors that people perceive as something that belongs to a specific gender. A good example would be how men are not allowed to be emotional, while it’s normal for women to be. A man can react, but a woman can only overreact. Another is the notion that boys should stick to playing with trucks and video games while girls should dress in pretty skirts and play with dolls.

Gender norms alone are a complex issue that’s currently being broken down. Society has seen gradual changes over time, although there’s still a long way to go, with a lot to work on. For example, the belief is that women are built for marriage and being wives while men go to work. Specific industries that used to be exclusive for men (medicine, construction work, entrepreneurship, etc.) have been taken over by women, breaking the old cycle of jobs that belong to a particular gender.

Governments – governing bodies are social constructs where models of leadership and authority are formed to implement order in society. However, not everyone operates the same way. Different communities function under various governing bodies rooted in their history and culture. Hence, the diverse types of governments worldwide.

Family – usually, people think of “family” as a basic unit that forms the community. The traditional setup of a mother, father, and children usually defines a family. A married couple is legally bound together under a sacred institution of marriage, and they subsequently produce children. Today, a family being biologically related to one another has been slowly blurred and redefined. Family can be a friend, a pet, or even a group of strangers platonically caring for each other.

Marriage – not all groups agree on a universal form of marriage. Religious beliefs picture it as a divine sacrament that can never be broken except by death. Some groups view it as a political and economic alliance for personal gain. Arranged marriages, where groups from both parties set up a man and woman together without the necessary emotional attachments, are also part of typical social constructs.

However, with the change of tides in gender roles, many people are working towards shifting what must be considered normal within the context of marriage. For example, the idea is that marriage is a personal choice and doesn’t have to be necessarily a show of proof that people love each other.

Religion – religious practices were born from a desire to seek guidance from a higher being. Humans were wired to look up to somebody, be it another person or a divine individual. Religion is also a highly regarded social construct that influences culture and history. They are one of the primary reasons that society operates a certain way, and in some cases, the laws of the land are rooted in religion.

In conclusion

One thing you should know about social constructs is this: you don’t have to conform to every one of them, even if it means earning the ire of many people around you. People who go against the flow may have been treated like an outcast, excluded in many social interactions, etc. But looking at them closely, they seem happier, more accessible, and relieved that they are not bound to those social constructs.